"The Battle"
“How stupid is it? I can’t talk about it, I got to sing about it and my a record of my heart. How stupid is it?”-El Scorcho
Well, I do not know who viewed what was here before (besides Wyatt), but it is gone now. Thought it might do well to keep some thoughts to myself afterall. Instead, you can all have fun exploring the status of my dresser top.
you know, three years ago i would never have backed down from posting what i did.
~Oz
posted by ozporn at 12:35 PM
1 Comments:
I was always a fan of Adam Smith.
Okay, well maybe not.
But I think I do what I do the way I do it because I remember what it was like back when I actually had a steady girlfriend (it's getting further and further away in time) and occasionally had to deal with friends' complaints about my availability and other issues.
Essentially, YOU are the ultimate judge of your own happiness and any/everyone has to come to grips with the fact that you are going to do whatever it is you feel needs to be done at any given time.
As I've said before, I think I have a tendency to relate your particular situation (and others) to my former situation a little bit too often, but there are certain similarities.
I think everyone has at least some issues with their significant other from time to time, and if you cannot vent to your friends, then there really is no one else (and posting every passing thought on the internet is probably not the best idea). Friends have to realize that they, for the most part, are going to hear the negatives more than the positives.
This does not mean that there are no positives however.
I'm not always this wise, of course - I think I've gotten a little better about this kind of thing over the last few years.
If someone is continually complaining about their 'other half,' sometimes it's a good idea to ask about the good things before immediately jumping in with "wow, you need to dump them." Basically just recognize that they may be simply blowing off steam.
All right.
Rant: off.
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