Take it with someone familiar with the whole situation and isn't merely giving advice blindly...
You can absolutely obsess over something that is done and over, but if you're honest with yourself, you'll realize that everything wasn't as golden as you're remembering. There were plenty of bad times too; you didn't make that stuff up. Acknowledge to yourself that the relationship was neither perfect nor hellish and you'll be far ahead of where I was in the same time frame.
You should only move forward in life, never backward. Endure the pain, but recognize that it is not the end. You will move on, and you'll learn from your experiences.
A relationship should not be a constant battle just for relatively brief moments of happiness.
Press on, Oz - and devote yourself to the present and future rather than the past.
I fully realize you may be unable to take such advice at this time, but try your best.
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Take it with someone familiar with the whole situation and isn't merely giving advice blindly...
You can absolutely obsess over something that is done and over, but if you're honest with yourself, you'll realize that everything wasn't as golden as you're remembering. There were plenty of bad times too; you didn't make that stuff up. Acknowledge to yourself that the relationship was neither perfect nor hellish and you'll be far ahead of where I was in the same time frame.
You should only move forward in life, never backward. Endure the pain, but recognize that it is not the end. You will move on, and you'll learn from your experiences.
A relationship should not be a constant battle just for relatively brief moments of happiness.
Press on, Oz - and devote yourself to the present and future rather than the past.
I fully realize you may be unable to take such advice at this time, but try your best.
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